HOW IT WORKS

  • People having ongoing problems contact ESCM and give a brief outline of the problem.
  • We will tell you whether the problem looks as if it can be mediated.
  • If we think we can help, two mediators will visit you to hear your concerns
  • They will then visit the other household to hear their concerns.
  • Everything the mediators are told is strictly confidential unless they are given permission for something to be revealed.
  • Our mediators will then ask the parties to consider having a joint meeting at a neutral venue with the mediators and each other. The problems are discussed frankly in a supportive environment, the mediators managing the meeting and ensuring everyone has their say.
  • Mediators do not take sides, give advice or make suggestions but use their experience to help everyone work together to find a genuinely workable solution.
  • You are under no obligation to continue and can opt out at any time.

 
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